The hopeful, helpful, empowering guide for when you don't feel like having sex

The Pearl Diaries: About Me

The Pearl Diaries: About Me

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Hey there. Welcome to my blog, The Pearl Diaries.


I’m going to let you in on a secret.

I’m 30 years old, and supposedly in my sexual prime. But sometimes, I just don’t want to have sex.

Sometimes it’s my fanny that plays up, sometimes it’s my head, sometimes it’s both.

But in a world where sex sells, it feels pretty lonely being the only one who can’t get a wide-on*.

I wondered to myself- why are no other women talking about this? 

So that’s why I started this blog.

A little about me:

My name is Mother Pearl. I’m a feminist, and I talk about pearls as a euphemism for your vagina. (I thought that was quite clever!).

Me and my vagina have a real love hate relationship and I have a real tendency to swear a lot!

I blog candidly to share my experiences about how I struggle with a low sexual appetite, and give some tips on how I manage mine.

I don’t pretend to know all the answers. I’m not a medical professional, or a sex therapist. But, I do know how it feels to struggle to want to have sex.

New here? Get started with my first blog post “The Pearl Diaries: An Essential Guide to Understanding Your Sex Drive”.

Lots of love,

Mother Pearl xx

*haven’t you heard of a wide-on? It’s the female version of a hard-on! Mates, get with the programme!



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