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Are you having Brussel Sprout sex?

Are you having Brussel Sprout sex?

Let me clear up the title of this article. Not are you having sex with Brussel sprouts? (Don’t worry if this is you, I’m sure there is a corner of the internet dedicated to solely that!). No. This article is about Brussel sprout sex. Let […]

When you want sex, do you feel it or think it first?

When you want sex, do you feel it or think it first?

This week the boyf has been away, and I’ve spent his absence thinking a lot about sex. Or rather, not thinking about sex. Even writing a blog post about sex I’m not thinking about it! I’ve realised that how much you think about sex on […]

This is the perfect way to find out what turns you on: the libido tracker

This is the perfect way to find out what turns you on: the libido tracker

Our sexual accelerator In this post I wrote about our sexual braking system (what turns us off). Being turned ON happens best when there’s an absence of turn OFFs (things like stress, distraction, worry). But, great news… We also have a sexual accelerator! These are all […]

Seven ways to reframe sex so it becomes essential to your wellbeing

Seven ways to reframe sex so it becomes essential to your wellbeing

    Lets be honest. Sometimes sex feels like a chore. Its late… the dogs watching… it feels like a lot of effort… you just want to go to sleep. It’s easy for it to fall to the bottom of your to-do list, or as […]

An Essential Guide To Understanding How We Get Turned On

An Essential Guide To Understanding How We Get Turned On

What do you think about when I say sexual health? Hands up if its STDs, pregnancy and contraception? Me too. But we ALL have a sexual health, just the same as our physical and mental health. Our sexual health also includes our “sexual wellbeing”. So although its […]

Here’s how I use a period tracker to manage my sex life better

Here’s how I use a period tracker to manage my sex life better

Our libidos go up and down at different times. For some women, this happens to coincide not with the earths gravitational pull or when Simon Cowell appears on the Xfactor, but with different stages of our periods. According to science, week two of our cycle (days […]

What’s putting the brakes on your sex life?

What’s putting the brakes on your sex life?

You know that feeling when you just can’t get turned on? There’s washing to do, a big meeting at work tomorrow, you’ve got a headache…it seems like there’s a million other things you need to do than have sex. Course you do. That’s why you’re […]