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Are you having Brussel Sprout sex?

Are you having Brussel Sprout sex?

Let me clear up the title of this article. Not are you having sex with Brussel sprouts? (Don’t worry if this is you, I’m sure there is a corner of the internet dedicated to solely that!). No. This article is about Brussel sprout sex. Let […]

The dreaded chat: talking to your partner about sex drive issues…

The dreaded chat: talking to your partner about sex drive issues…

So. We’ve already established that you don’t necessarily have a LOW sex drive (for more info, read this post). It’s just different. But having a partner with an opposite level of sex drive, or a predominantly different type of sex drive (see this post) can […]

Here’s how to get in the mood for sex when you have “responsive” sexual desire

Here’s how to get in the mood for sex when you have “responsive” sexual desire

Many women (about 70%) have a naturally more “responsive” way of getting in the mood for sex. I’ve written a whole post about it here, but in a nutshell if that’s you, you’ll most likely WANT to have sex AFTER you become aroused. For men, its […]

This is the perfect way to find out what turns you on: the libido tracker

This is the perfect way to find out what turns you on: the libido tracker

Our sexual accelerator In this post I wrote about our sexual braking system (what turns us off). Being turned ON happens best when there’s an absence of turn OFFs (things like stress, distraction, worry). But, great news… We also have a sexual accelerator! These are all […]

Seven ways to reframe sex so it becomes essential to your wellbeing

Seven ways to reframe sex so it becomes essential to your wellbeing

    Lets be honest. Sometimes sex feels like a chore. Its late… the dogs watching… it feels like a lot of effort… you just want to go to sleep. It’s easy for it to fall to the bottom of your to-do list, or as […]