The hopeful, helpful, empowering guide for when you don't feel like having sex

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I interviewed a porn star about her libido, here’s what I found:

I interviewed a porn star about her libido, here’s what I found:

When I was in the midst of a really low point to do with my sex drive, I often wondered about porn stars and their libido. I watched them happily shagging away, and I wondered whether they were really attracted to the people they have […]

The dreaded chat: talking to your partner about sex drive issues…

The dreaded chat: talking to your partner about sex drive issues…

So. We’ve already established that you don’t necessarily have a LOW sex drive (for more info, read this post). It’s just different. But having a partner with an opposite level of sex drive, or a predominantly different type of sex drive (see this post) can […]

Here’s how to get in the mood for sex when you have “responsive” sexual desire

Here’s how to get in the mood for sex when you have “responsive” sexual desire

Many women (about 70%) have a naturally more “responsive” way of getting in the mood for┬ásex. I’ve written a whole post about it here, but in a nutshell if that’s you, you’ll most likely WANT to have sex AFTER you become aroused. For men, its […]

Seven ways to reframe sex so it becomes essential to your wellbeing

Seven ways to reframe sex so it becomes essential to your wellbeing

    Lets be honest. Sometimes sex feels like a chore. Its late… the dogs watching… it feels like a lot of effort… you just want to go to sleep. It’s easy for it to fall to the bottom of your to-do list, or as […]